Falling for a guy is a beautiful thing, but it can be frustrating trying to figure out if he feels the same way. If you’ve been getting mixed signals from a guy you’re interested in and you’re not sure what to do, don’t worry, this guide contains 50 undeniable signs he loves you and 20 signs he doesn’t.
Love can be complicated as people are unpredictable creatures, men even more so. This guide covers everything you need to know from how to know if a guy loves you secretly down to the signs he doesn’t want a relationship with you.
Let’s get started on the 50 undeniable signs he loves you, broken down under six subheadings to help you easily understand the signs he loves you.
True Signs He Loves You
If you’ve been wondering if that special guy loves you or you’re just curious about how your boyfriend feels about you, here are the true signs he loves you.
1. You’re the center of his world: When a man is in love, he doesn’t think twice about putting you first. If he’s consistently making an effort to talk to you daily, clears his schedule to spend time with you and he’s never tired of listening to you, these are clear signs he loves you.
2. Your opinions matter to him: Men are known for their pride but a man who loves you values your opinions. He might not feel the same way but nonetheless, he respects what you have to say.
3. He gives random compliments: One of the true signs he loves you is how much he adores you. He compliments you daily about the smallest things and he does so with pride. If you get a new dress or if you do well at work/school, he tells you how amazing and dedicated you are. No matter what you do, he’s proud of you and shows it.
4. He goes the extra mile to please you: When he puts your happiness first and goes out of his way to make you smile. He could be busy but the moment you ask for a favor he drops everything to please you.
5. He apologizes first: It’s impossible for you not to argue with the guy you like but no matter who’s wrong or right, if he’s the first to apologize it’s a sign he loves you. He’s able to swallow his pride to apologize first because you matter more than him being right.
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6. He doesn’t keep you guessing: When a guy loves you, he doesn’t keep you guessing about his whereabouts, his schedule, or his feelings. He tells you about his plans for the day, let’s you know when he’s busy and tells you frequently how much he loves you.
7. He listens: A man in love will listen more than he talks, he wants to know more about you, every detail of your life, everything you say matters to him. He doesn’t talk about himself without first listening to what you have to say.
8. He’s passionate: Love cannot exist without passion, a man in love will be passionate about you and not just intimately. This means that he’s not only curious about the things you like but makes an effort to be a part of it. He’s your biggest supporter, motivator, and cheerleader.
Signs He Loves You Without Saying It
Men aren’t the best at expressing their feelings, so how do you know he loves you if he doesn’t tell you? That’s easy, here are the sure signs he loves you without saying it.
9. He always smiles and prolongs eye contact every time he’s with you.
10. He doesn’t make any big decisions without asking for your opinions.
11. He learns to love the things you love. That’s one remarkable signs he loves you.
12. He sends you random texts about how much he misses you.
13. He finds your jokes funnier than they actually are.
14. He loves to buy you gifts no matter the occasion.
15. He enjoys listening to you and getting to know you.
16. His arms are always around you, especially in public.
Signs He Loves You Secretly
You have a crush on a guy and want to know if he feels the same way before making a move, here are sure signs he loves you secretly.
17. He only has eyes for you: In a room full of people, you can feel him staring at you, every time you look at him, he always smiles at you. He finds ways to be alone with you and even when he’s with other people, he brings you into the conversation. He unconsciously follows your every movement because he wishes to be with you.
18. He likes and comments on your posts: When a guy likes you, he tends to stalk you online but not in a creepy way, shy guys usually do this. He likes your pictures and usually comments. He looks for similar interests you share and tags you in posts you’d like, these are all signs he loves you.
19. He gets jealous when you’re with other guys: A fast way to tell if a guy secretly likes you is to watch his reaction when you give attention to other guys. If he shows signs of jealousy by sulking, being grumpy or annoyed, it’s a sure sign he loves you.
20. He’s conscious of his appearance: There are many secret signs a man loves you, but a common sign all men have is being conscious of their appearance around the woman they like. If he makes an effort to look good when you hang out, it means he wants to impress you, which undoubtedly means he has feelings for you.
21. He’s unexpectedly sweet: He’s full of surprise gifts and random acts of kindness. He brings you coffee or lunch for no reason, he buys you flowers or chocolate even when it’s not a special occasion. He’s eager to help you out and compliments you about everything, these are physical signs of affection from a man.
22. He makes it his motto to make you laugh: He makes it his daily goal to make you laugh, you find yourself constantly laughing at the silly things he does and you know he doesn’t do this with anyone else, it’s a clear sign he loves you and values your happiness.
23. He drops sneaky comments: When a guy secretly has feelings for you, he tends to drop comments like, how he wants to have a relationship with a girl as amazing as you are or he would ask about your boyfriend preferences. This is a sneaky way of saying he likes you and wants to know if you do too.
24. He becomes a ‘yes’ man: Becoming a ‘yes’ man simply means, he can’t say no to you. No matter the request, he would do anything you want without needing convincing, this is a clear sign he loves you.
Signs He Loves You Deeply Body Language
One of the easiest signs he loves you comes from his body language, when a man loves you secretly or openly he unconsciously shows it through his actions. Here are the best signs he loves you deeply body language.
25. The eyes don’t lie: The eyes as the popular saying goes, ‘are the windows to a person’s soul’, if he has feelings for you, you’ll catch him frequently staring at you and when you do, he either smiles or looks away quickly. It’s a physical sign of affection from a man, he loves you so he can’t help but stare at you.
26. He always has a smile ready: One of the signs he’s madly in love with you is the way his entire mood brightens up whenever you’re around. He could be going through a hard time but the moment he sees you, he smiles like it’s the best day of his life. If he always smiles at you whether you’re together or when he sees you, it’s one of the clearest signs he loves you.
27. He finds ways to touch you: Physical signs of affection from a man are the easiest to spot, a guy in love will find ways to touch you. Another surprising sign is that his body automatically leans towards you when you’re having a conversation, he holds you tighter than normal when you hug, his hands tend to brush yours when you walk together or he wraps his arms around your waist. These are all signs he loves you.
28. He mimics your actions: Another sign he loves you deeply is how he mimics your actions. He walks at the same pace you do if you have a habit of running your hand through your hair, he does the same, if you lick your lips, he licks his. When you notice he copies the same gestures you do, it’s one of the signs he loves you.
29. He tries to look impressive: Whenever you’re around, he stands up straight to look taller, his voice becomes deeper, he shields you with his body when you’re walking together or he doesn’t slouch when he’s sitting next to you. These are some of the physical signs of affection from a man, he is trying to impress you by looking manly.
30. He gets shy or nervous when you’re alone: Whenever you’re alone together, he suddenly turns shy or gets nervous around you. Sometimes this comes off as cold or uninterested but they are signs he loves you. Being alone with the person you love can be nerve-wracking for a girl but for a guy trying to impress you it’s twice as hard.
31. He tends to lick his lips or stares at yours: Women are known for licking or biting their lips around a guy they like and men also do the same. If he tends to lick or bite his lips, he’s either nervous or trying to be seductive. If you catch him staring intensely at yours, it’s a sign he’s attracted to you and wants to kiss you. What better physical sign of affection from a man than when he unknowingly shows his attraction to you.
32. He gets jealous or tries to make you jealous: When a guy likes you, he tries to confirm your feelings for him by flirting with his female friends to see how you’d react and when you spend time with other guys, he gets jealous. These are genuine signs he wants to be with you.
Signs a Man is in Love With You but Scared
Just as how you get scared to make the first move, men also get scared to approach you. Here are the signs a man is in love with you but scared to take the next step.
33. He’s sweet then sour: A man’s ego is the biggest hurdle to overcome when love comes in, no man wants to be seen as desperate, so while he’s sweet to you he also turns sour because he’s scared to fall for you without knowing the depth of your feelings for him. The best way to overcome this is patience, don’t push him when he pulls away, give him time, and show him that you care.
34. He doesn’t share: Some men don’t know how to express their feelings while others keep it hidden. If he shows he cares about you but won’t talk to you about his problems/feelings, it’s a clear sign he loves you but he’s scared. The best way to reach a man who doesn’t share is to get him to trust you, open up to him but don’t force him to do the same.
35. He introduces you to his friends or family: A man who loves you wants you to be a part of his inner circle. He’ll introduce you to his friends and family, which are clear signs even if he hasn’t taken the initiative to ask you out yet.
36. He looks at you longingly: No matter how hard a guy tries to hide his feelings for you, he can’t stop his body from yearning for you. One of the signs a man is in love with you but scared to approach you is when he stares at you with a longing look in his eyes. If you catch him staring, he avoids your gaze or blushes, but once you look away he’s back to staring at you like you’re the only person in the room.
37. His actions don’t match his words: The most confusing sign a man is in love with you but scared to take action is when he goes the extra mile to please yet won’t say he loves you. If he’s consistently focused on making you happy and spends quality time with you, these are signs he loves you but if his words are sending mixed signals, then tell him how you feel, there’s a good chance that’s all the push he needs.
38. He’s attracted to you but won’t make a move: A guy who loves you will undoubtedly be attracted to you. If you catch him frequently checking you out or he always dresses to impress you, he’s clearly attracted to you but not making a move shows he’s scared. This could be because he’s unsure of your feelings or his last relationship made him unable to commit. Show him you feel the same way and be patient, don’t try to force him into a relationship he’s not ready for.
39. He supports everything you do: A man in love with you will become your biggest supporter, he’s always cheering you on down to the smallest things you do. This is a genuine sign he loves you and as for why he hasn’t said those words yet, he’s either not ready or unsure if you feel the same way.
40. He talks about you in future terms: When he talks about you, he uses terms like ‘we and us’, and when he talks about the future, you’re a part of the picture. These are signs that he loves you and is considering a relationship with you, it’s his way of asking if you want the same thing, so don’t leave him guessing, tell him how you feel.
How to Test a Guy to See if He Really Loves You
You’re head over heels for this guy and want to know the depth of his feelings for you, then here’s how to test a guy to see if he really loves you.
41. Ask him about his future plans and focus on whether or not he mentions you in it.
42. Pay attention to why he does nice things to you, does he do them freely or as an apology?.
43. Ask him about his opinions on what a long-lasting relationship should entail and what he wants from your relationship.
44. Pay attention to how he acts in public, does he focus on you or is he distracted by his surroundings?.
45. Is he proud of you or does he constantly criticize everything you do?.
46. Does he make time to spend with you or does he only give excuses and when you spend time together, is he focused on you or his phone?.
47. Does he prolong eye contact when talking to you or looks elsewhere when he’s addressing you?
48. Does he walk ahead of you or slows his pace to walk by your side?
49. When he says ‘I love you’, does he say it with emotion or playfully?
50. Does he only want to be intimate you or does he spend time getting to know you?
Now that you know the signs he loves you, let’s talk about the 20 signs he doesn’t so that you can check the difference to the signs he loves you.
How to Know If He Loves You or Lusts You
How to know if he loves you or lusts you is easy, just ask yourself these simple questions.
1. Is he interested in knowing more about you or does he only focus on your physical attributes?
2. Does he share his personal life or does he only tell you about the love-making positions he likes?
3. Does he compliment you on the things you do or only tells you how good your body looks?
4. Does he include you when he talks about the future or is the only conversation you come up in about love-making?
5. Is he someone you can rely on or are you the only one doing favors and giving him financial support?
If your answers to these questions are negative, these are not signs he loves you but signs he doesn’t really love you and is just using you.
Signs He Doesn’t Love You Enough
A man might love you but not love you the way you deserve, here are the signs he doesn’t love you enough.
6. He lies to you: Telling lies is one of the clearest signs he doesn’t love you enough. A man who loves you deeply will feel guilty about lying but a man who doesn’t love you won’t. If he’s frequently telling lies and being secretive, it means he doesn’t care about hurting you.
7. He doesn’t bother to reach you: Another sign he doesn’t love you enough is when he’s okay with not talking to you for days/weeks. A man in love with you will reach out no matter how busy his schedule is.
8. He wants to change you: If a man is criticizing you about your body, job, or interests then he doesn’t love you. If he’s trying to change who you are to meet his own needs, such a man is not worth keeping.
9. He won’t meet your friends or family: A man who loves you deeply wants to be a part of your life, he wants to meet your friends and family. If he’s always finding excuses not to, it’s a sign he doesn’t love you enough to commit.
10. He verbally hurts you: Verbal abuse is a nasty way of destroying a woman’s self-esteem. If a man is fond of insulting you, it’s a clear sign he doesn’t love you. A man who loves you will always treat you respectfully.
Signs He Doesn’t Love You Anymore
Do you feel your relationship has taken a turn for the worse and want to know the signs he doesn’t love you anymore? Then here are the undeniable signs he doesn’t love you.
11. He’s no longer passionate: One of the signs he loves you is how passionate he is about your life and intimately as well. When a man no longer has feelings for you, he no longer cares about your interests or wants to be with you intimately.
12. He avoids spending time with you: He’s suddenly always busy, no more quality time together and if you do get him alone, he’s always on his phone or shows a lack of interest being next to you.
13. He doesn’t go the extra mile: You’re no longer able to depend on him. When you ask for favors he makes excuses not to help or does so with his displeasure evident.
14. He’s no longer sweet: No more surprise gifts, compliments, or endearing text messages. He doesn’t make any efforts towards your happiness and is indifferent to the things that are important to you.
15. He doesn’t communicate: It takes you leaving multiple messages and voicemails before he gets back to you. He won’t share details about his life or ask you about yours, these are clear signs he doesn’t love you anymore.
Signs He Doesn’t Want a Relationship With You
While you want a long-term relationship, the guy you like might not. Here are the signs he doesn’t want a relationship with you.
16. He avoids being seen in public with you: A man who doesn’t want a relationship will avoid going out in public with you as much as possible. You might think he just wants to spend time alone with you but if your dates are frequently at his place or yours, there’s a good chance he wants to hit and run.
17. He disappears: If he’s the type to suddenly go off the grid with no word or a way to reach him for weeks then he’s not looking for a relationship with you.
18. He’s closed off: Any guy who wants to have a relationship will be open, he shares details about his life because he trusts you and wants you to know him. If he avoids talking about his private life even when you’re open about yours, it’s a sign he doesn’t want a relationship with you.
19. He’s only passionate in the bedroom: If he only enjoys spending time with you in the bedroom and not outside of it then he doesn’t want a relationship with you and is using you to satisfy his urges. It’s not a signs he loves you, he’s just doing a timpass with you.
20. He doesn’t listen: If he only talks about himself and never listens to what you have to say, it means he’s not interested in you and it’s not a signs he loves you. A man who wants a relationship with you will make an effort to get to know you and be interested in what you have to say.
Men are complicated creatures when it comes to love, but with this guide on the 50 undeniable signs he loves you and the 20 signs he doesn’t, you have an arsenal of knowledge to help better understand the male psyche. Don’t forget to comment and share this article with your friends, I wish you success on your love journey.